"Field Posts"

We do teams.  We do LOTS of teams.  These teams facilitate transformed lives.  Haitian lives.  American lives.  This is why we do teams.  It’s not lip service, we really do Mobilize Global Partnerships to Transform Lives in Christ. This month, we have only had 1 team. This is unusual.  Coming up very shortly, we will have 8 teams in 8 weeks.  I can’t even describe to you the amount of work that it takes to not only facilitate these team visits, but also to facilitate these partnerships year around.  The RMI team here in Haiti is “firing on all cylinders”, but it takes a lot of effort to keep us all moving together in the same direction.  We have been growing in quantity for sure, but we are investing lots of time in making sure we are growing in quality as well.  There are all kinds of things in the works.  It takes time to build depth, but we are committed to the hard work of making it happen.  I can’t wait to launch som...

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Last weekend we held the annual Ladies’ Missionary Retreat at RMI’s Retreat Center in Zanglais, Haiti.  This is the third year that Amy and I have organized this event, and RMI has been planning/sponsoring it for many, many years.  This is a weekend the missionary ladies look forward to every year, and it seems the excitement has grown each year since I have been here.  This year we had 40 missionary ladies in attendance: a record number for Amy and me! Our theme was “ Learning to Listen: An Invitation to Sacred Stillness.”   Our speakers, Pauline McLemore, MS, EdS and Jama White, PsyD, came from the Chattanooga, TN area.  The theme verse was Psalm 46:10 “Be still and know that I am God.”  Throughout the weekend we were challenged to cease striving and be still before God, were given tools to aid us in listening to God during our quiet times, looked at Jesus’ example of engaging in ministry and relationships and then retreating for rest, and discussed the...

“Cultural humility gives up a role as expert, instead seeing ourselves as students of our host culture. “ I came across this quote in a post by Marilyn Gardner on her blog entry here . Only God knows how I can have this attitude, and still lead, still influence, still change the world.  Yet, Jesus did it.  He came as God (clearly the expert), but gave up himself and changed the world for all time!  The point is, I believe I have much to give to my Haitian brothers and sisters, but I am constantly reminded, and must always remember, that the truth is that they have even more to give to me.  Oh Lord, give me the humility of Jesus.  He was God, but he changed the world by considering himself less than man by dying on a cross.  He died so I can live. The FIRST step is to listen.   The first step is to assume that I am ignorant of how to proceed in this culture, which is very different (not weird) than my own.  In order to listen, I must strip m...

I am celebrating Becky today.  She is God’s greatest gift on earth to me.  She is truly the mate of my soul.  No one else can comprehend what I have.  There is no person on earth that I have ever met that I enjoy more.  Seriously, I have thought about this often.  I respect her.  I appreciate her.  I want to honor her.  I like her.  I love her.  We have walked hand in hand in many places, on many different soils, through many challenges, over many hill tops, and I can say with absolute certainty, that I would not have wanted to walk through any of our past, our present, and I do not want to walk through any of our future with any other person at my side. Bon Fet “Cheri”, mwen renmen ou anpil, anpil, anpil…

This is Post #1 in a series of 20 Values/Motivasyon that I have taught to my team here in Haiti.  These values are the roots or anchors of the 3rd Culture we are creating together. I will continue to teach these, and I pray model these. This is who I am, and I want my team to know how I think, what I expect of myself/them, who I want us to be, and why/how I/we do what I/we do. Value #1: Tell the Truth / Di Verite There are no exceptions.  We will ALWAYS tell the truth and we will hold all those we work with to the same standard.  For me, truth is the bedrock of life.  If we don’t tell the truth, every other aspect of our lives crumbles.  If we don’t tell the truth, there can’t be mutual trust.  If there can’t be mutual trust, we can’t work together.  How can one ever function in a community, as a team, as a partnership, if we can’t trust that one another are telling the truth, 100% of the time.  This isn’t always true in Haiti, or in America....

Behind everything that we do are both values and culture.  RMI is an international organization that desires to uncompromisingly embrace the values of Scripture, while honoring the US and Haitian cultures.  This is no easy task! We have found it necessary to teach Biblical values as well as create our own 3rd culture, that embraces both American and Haitian cultures, that honors both, that carefully encourages the positives of both, and cautiously discourages the negatives of both.  Of course, evaluating the positives and negatives of a culture is no easy task that can be checked off the list as done!  Cultures are different, usually not right or wrong. Listening and asking tons of questions before evaluating is paramount.  Example: In the context of working to aggressively extend God’s kingdom by bringing the Gospel to bear on every part of life (this is what we do), what’s more important, productivity or relationships?  Good luck coming up with an answ...

We have spent much time over the last couple of years building up our team here in Haiti.  We have been organizing and training.  We have been empowering, embracing, and releasing them for ministry. These aren’t empty words. We don’t have gophers, or even employees, but fellow team mates. RMI can only accomplish great things for the Lord because of these 29 servants (this number of course does not include our missionary staff, that I am also grateful for).  Our capacity here in Haiti has grown exponentially.  We are now able to handle multiple endeavors every day.  Vehicle maintenance, deliveries, financial oversight, SCP and HFK accountability visits by monitors, project facilitation, bank runs, tons of administration, US church team visits, communications, hospitality logistics, all being done well and happening concurrently every day.  Why can we do this?  Only because of our trusted team. I believe in them. Yet, we want to do more and we want to do...

I want you to meet 6ish year old Mika (Meeka).  She is on the outside.  I know her name.  It’s easier when you don’t know their name…  When I took the photos below, about 150 school children were inside the church enjoying the presence of one of our visiting Sister Church teams.  At the very moment I took the first photo below, there were roars of laughter and squeals of delight in response to the activity that the visiting team was doing. It was a great encouragement to the children on the inside.  But, in my heart, that which was going on on the inside, was overshadowed by what was happening on the outside.  Mika.  Why?  Why was she standing there with dirty clothes, no pants on, no access to the hope available from an education.  I am certain she is under nourished.  Yet, she looks so hard and strong.  She looks so determined at such a young age.  What lies ahead for her?  What is her life really like?  I am c...

It’s time for a change.  For a long time, we used “theSlice” to refer to our periodic email newsletter, and we used “thesliver” to refer to our blog.   Cute, right?  We had a website and we had a blog.  Now all this is changing. Both our Blog , and our e-Newsletter will be called “Field Posts” and both, among other information, is always available via the new and improved www.robandbecky.com .  As a way to cut administrative corners, we no longer have a separate website with unique content.  We now just have one all-inclusive blog, with multiple pages with all the same website type of general info. Why the change?  We are always looking for better ways to communicate more effectively, and to do it more efficiently.  We are ALWAYS pressed for time (as you probably are too), and therefore, we think this will communicate good updates to our family, friends, and supporters much more regularly, with less work on our part. Some people visit ...